Relationships are a source of positive emotions and support which are critical for our satisfaction of life. From an evolutionary perspective, isolation threatens survival. Humans are social beings who thrive on connection, intimacy, and strong emotional interactions. Research have shown that relationships improve the odds of survival by 50 percent. It is therefore important to build relationships that will last.
Meaningful and intimate relationships are inextricably related to our mental wellbeing and happiness. The law of attraction is on hand to help you whether you are in an unhappy relationship, want to transform your existing mediocre relationship into a great one, or you want to attract someone special in your life.
A Few Questions to Ask Yourself
A healthy and happy relationship is priceless. The first thing you need to do to accomplish your relationship goals is to understand yourself.
Spend some time alone with yourself and ask yourself some of these revealing questions:
- What makes you happy?
- What is more important to you— your career or your family?
- Who makes you feel inspired and who makes you feel exhausted?
- What are you avoiding (are you avoiding your responsibilities?)?
Analyzing your answers to the questions above will help you identify some important aspects of your life that need improvement.
Ask yourself: Do I often do things I love doing? Do I treat myself with the love and respect I think I deserve?
If you answer NO to any of these questions, you have to work on increasing your self-love. If you love yourself and do things that make you happy, you will attract others to do the same.
Ask yourself: Do I enjoy spending time with myself? If you don’t enjoy your own company, how can you expect others to enjoy being with you?
Those who are unlucky in love develop an attachment to seeing themselves in a negative light. They begin to believe that they do not deserve to be loved. By having no love for themselves, they unwittingly block the way for others to express their love. As a result, they either struggle in their current relationships or fail to find the right partner. Since they think that they are lonely and alone in the world, they attract more loneliness.
The Importance of Self-Care
Self-care is simply about taking care of your needs, your health, and your happiness. It can harm your self-esteem when you are constantly trying to meet the needs of others before taking care of yourself. Sometimes, you may need to put yourself last when you are in a relationship. But if you constantly take care of others’ needs before your own, you will attract more of the same. How can you build relationships when other people will always put you last? If you yourself believe that you do not need extra care, this mindset may sabotage the success of your relationship.
An Attitude of Gratitude
Do we stop to think of how grateful we are of the people who make our life worthwhile? If you appreciate your partner, you will discover his or her new positive qualities. The new discovery may provide a booster shot for your relationship. Sometimes all you need to heal a broken relationship is a little gratitude.
An attitude of gratitude is one of the most important tools to manifest the love of your life. Feel grateful for having your partner in your life. Make a list of what you like about your partner. Also make a list of your own positive qualities and feel grateful for having them. Use gratitude to slowly build relationships.
If your relationship makes you feel lonely, think back to what brought you together in the first place. Recall the happy moments you share together and write them down. Avoid paying attention to anything negative that may come up as you practice this gratitude exercise. Remember that when you focus on the negative aspects, you are unconsciously asking the universe to add more negativity to your relationship. On the flipside, when you focus on gratitude, the universe will give you more reasons to feel grateful.
How to Attract a Soulmate
Find a comfortable position. You may sit or lie down, then take a few deep breaths. As you exhale, say the word “relax” and give your body, your mind and your heart a chance to relax. Close your eyes.
Now imagine yourself on the “perfect date.” You feel relaxed and at ease with yourself, and the person you are with. Visualize yourself having fun and being fully engaged with that person. Vividly picture your partner and envision presenting the best version of yourself.
Activate your senses. Feel the touch, and the smell. Feel the wind, the sunshine, and the strong romantic chemistry. Allow the positive romantic energy to fill every molecule of your body. Spend some time imagining the joyful moments with your partner. Take a few deep breaths before opening your eyes.
Manifesting your desired relationship is as easy as manifesting anything else in life. Sometimes the road to finding true love can be a long one. Just believe in yourself and the universe will guide you down that road. It will make it easy for you to build relationships. It will provide you the direction and support for the fulfillment of love. You are the master of your love life.